Rape and pigs

I am a guy and yes, some guys are real pigs. My apologies to pigs if they feel insulted by referencing such guys to them.

Some guys keep commenting that they get raped because the girls dressed provocatively. I completely disagree and here's why - from a very hamsap point of view. Don't judge me first - but please, read on.

Firstly - if provocative clothes is all it takes to turn a guy on, there won't be any of these "Field Reports" on hamsap massages and the extra services. All we need would then be just, well, some short skirts, padded bras and of course, good make-up. Evidently, for the more experienced guys, this is far from sufficient. We wonder about skills (butterfly touch, BBBJ, CIM, riding stamina,...), attitude (CFM look, GFE, rushing or not, ...), looks (not to be confused with how they dress), hygiene, environment (is the place is dirty), and sometimes even more intimate details (tight, wet, fake moan or real moan, wild or not, swallow or not ... you get the idea).

What I am really trying to say is, for most of us guys (be it married, with girlfriend or with extras, or a combination there-of), it takes more then just provocative looks. So, what will provocative looks get? Just that - looks. It will grab a guy's attention (not his cock's attention) and he may take a second look. That's it. No more, no less.

And now, for my second argument as a hamsap guy. I love sex and I have sex often. I have some great sex partners. So, if you have had a damn good session, do you think you can just get hard after that? If I have a good session with H, or her young cousin, chances are, I will be satisfied for 48 to 72 hours. After that, I will be in my hamsap mode again.

After a good session, no amount of provocative clothes can wake up little brother. By good session, I mean her sperm count will be a lot higher than mine at the end of the session. Go figure if you still cannot understand that. If someone gets hard and gets driven to the point of raping a gal - that guy has to be truly deprived. My advice - please get a sex life, or sign-up to UNIFI and access Spankwire (using Google DNS, of course).

Clearly, the problem is - these rapist do not have the means to have a fulfilling sex life; or perhaps just being a tight-fisted wanker. On the same note, I seldom do one-night-stands or have impulsive sex. It's usually with some planning and scheduling. As they say - failing to plan is planning for failure.

And my last point, for this post at least - is this: Please learn what a damn good session is all about. Just raping her is a big turn-off for me (and many other hamsap guys). We want lots of passionate kissing, blowjobs, dining at her Y, making her really wet and yes - we do make her scream but that's screaming with pleasure, take our time, have seconds, and thirds, trying out all sorts of position. We want it to be a point she will look forward for a good session with us too. And yeah - we want her well lubricated, naturally (which is why its a negative point in FRs if she uses KY...). And of course, one of the best feeling is to hug each other, plus some french kissing, at the end of the session. The smile on her face would be, well - priceless. Better still, if she whispers "That was damn  nice", and licks your ear.

All in all, for the truly sexually deprive, please grow a pair and learn what a sexual relationship is all about. Don't stay frustrated. To the very least, learn how to take matters into your own hands. By that, I mean - have a good wank.

NOTE: If it was just provocative dressing with nothing else, guys general call it a "dead fish" scenario.

Puchong - Naughty massage

So, I decided to check out a place in Puchong. Took me long enough to locate it - went to the wrong part of town. The place does not have any signboards. It was a good thing I went there late at night - else, the traffic would have screwed me first. Next would be petrol prices.

Nett nett, it was not a bad place. It has a few young gals - all Vietnamese. The most 'serious' service would be bbbj, nothing more. (Being young gals, they aren't that skillful either). But what is fantastic is the nice, soft touch and their very tender skin. Aaaahhhhh. Oh - the massage would be terrible too - something that we would classify as "piano" massage (not a good thing).