The other position vacant

It has been sometime since I've a long term friends with benefits. H has been very busy. I have started going out with M. Let's just say she's has a nice set of racks and super sexy. Always very horny. We've been groping and kissing a lot, but no cigar yet.

Still trying hard to get her in bed. For some reason, she's a bit worried. Suspect it has something to do with her ex - that is, not wanting a serious relationship but misses the sex. Same here. Will work on it and will keep all posted. Can't wait to see her again. The thoughts of her alone makes me hard and horny.

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Some months back, I've posted about a gal pregnant with twins and she did return to her home. Gave birth to the twins about two months ago, but the babies did not survive. Both died due to heart failure and lung complications. Indeed, it is very sad. Now, I am wondering if abortion would have been better. Or was it better by just giving the babies a chance? But what chances would they have for a underage teen runaway mother? The mother is young and broke. Gosh - she ate poorly during her pregnancy - often surviving on instant noodles and some soya milk. Spent a fair bit of my money buying and sending her food. And she had really bad skin. I've no idea what it is, but it is like rashes and think and dark patches on joints.

Alas, there was only so much I could do, and indeed her other friends helped her out. I guess we must really educate out teens on pregnancy and tell them all about how to prevent it - including staying away from sex. That's bloody difficult, as I would understand.

This reminds me of a Australian mother. She said, she would rather her daughter have sex safely in her own bed, then to do 'it' in some back alley or a dirty toilet cubicle. Or get filmed in a budget hotel while enjoying sex. So, this mother would say, yeah - it sure is hard to consent her daughter (of legal age but still young) to have sex, but no point it making her have unsafe sex. Que sera sera.

Online Fishing - What the...

Updates on my online fishing. HM account has expired - back to being a ordinary member. I will not be renewing my gold membership - not worth it.

On AFF, a good number of response has been received, trading email as well as chatting online. No real action. But then again, I do not expect anything quick.

What is strange to me is, there are actually gals out there, on AFF, looking for a long term boyfriend. Good grief, AFF is not the place to be looking for boyfriends, unless one does not mind a playboy.

Let's be frank. Guys will think about sex all the time. So, the only difference is, one will lie and say no, the other will admit it. It's whether the gals could handle the truth. No, surely girls don't have to say yes to the guys - say yes only whenever they want to. But everyone should be able to handle the truth. Else, some poor girls will be cheated. I've noticed guys around here have started to lie. Tell the gal "I Love You", just to have sex with them. After some time, they dump the gal. To me, that's wrong. I rather be more upfront (but not wham bang thank you ma'am), and be honest. I never have the heart to make another person sad, especially a gal. But gals, please don't be too innocent. Guys can be heartless. Don't just believe the words "I Love You". With a lot of time, you can truly tell if a guy loves you - especially during bad times. During fun and good times, everyone will love you!

Ok, not all guys think of sex all the time, but here's a story. A close friend of mine got married, with his true love. He loved this gal very much and yes, it was truly love at first site. Yours truly witnessed it from day one. Indeed, after about 10 years, it was a happy occasion to see them getting married.

Last year, they told me that they were going for a honeymoon, on a cruise to Thailand. Wow. Very romantic indeed. So, I cheekily told the gal to enjoy herself. (I know her well too, so, it was no offence.) To my surprise, she had a sad look. She said, "He'll probably be with his PDA." Hmmm. By the looks of it, his wife (the gal) happens to be at best, his forth wife. Apparently, his car comes first, followed by the notebook, then, the PDA. So, she's Number 4. At night, he spends more time with Wife 2 and Wife 3 than with Wife 4.

How sad. So, looks like as far as gals / wives are concerns, guys will get other 'gals' / 'wives' one way or the other. It may not be a person after all! But the effect is the same, the poor gal or wife will feel neglected. And some, have a mistress by the name of Golf.

Which reminds me of what a Buddhist monk said, "The most important person in the world is the person in front of you." So, it does not matter who the person is. As long as they are in front of you, talking to you, make them feel the most important. I am sure that way, everyone will be happier!

No, I've never lied just to get into bed with someone. I rather not. And no, I do not golf!

What a weekend :)

It started with a meeting with a new netfriend, Jane, in Ikano. We had a good conversation and we did exchange a lot of stories. She is a very pretty, warm and friendly girl. I would sure love to go out with her more often, possibly to catch a good movie. Too bad I did was running out of time.

I rushed home, to meet with H. The house was empty, and more importantly, H was free. We've decided to meet up for a hot time together. The second I saw her, I got a hard-on. She was wearing a shorts, and it was short! My my, those sexy, fair legs. And the soft thighs. No no, I did not just ravage her like an animal. We had lunch first and then, we started petting. We love it best when we lie on top of each other and french. After 15 minutes or so, so was dripping wet, and asked me to penetrate her. Oh my, it felt so good for the both of us. She's very tight and wet. Made her cum a few times, she made a lot of noise, and at times, I had to slow down - I would cum as I have not had any action for some time.

She ride me for a while and then, proceed to give me some hot mouth action. Oh, she is very skilled with her tongue. She's good enough not to make me cum immediately! Literally, it was mind-blowing, no pun intended. I finally shot my load in her mouth. And as usually, she continued sucking way after I was done.

Went on with more kissing and petting... hmm... I proceeded to 'dine' on her boobs. Good thing the house was empty and the neighbours were away. She's getting noisy again. I ate here, *everywhere*, fingered her and finally stopped when she was dry. Being my ex, she's kind. She gave me yet another blowjob and unloaded yet again in her mouth. Oh yeah, for the second round, she liked by balls, rimmed me, and even gave me the 'fire and ice' sensation. Great gal.

Went out for a movie with her after our 3 hour sex session, after dinner. Hmmm. I sure did sleep well yesterday night! Only bad news - my bed is squeeking and I may need to get a new one. Then again, that's a good problem to have!