A sad tale indeed...

Just read in today's papers, a five year old kid was killed. The kid was sitting on his grandma's lap, travelling in a Toyota Vios along the North South Expressway. Their car was hit from the back by a Camry. Sadly, the grandmother was flung out of the car, killed. The kid suffered serious injuries from the impact, and died. The Camry ended up burnt.

This is really sad. Vios have fairly good safety features, yet two souls were lost. Once must remember, the seat belts are useless until we buckle up. Don't let a child sit on your lap. I have seen this countless times. Airbags are useless if you have a child on your lap. Please travel safe for your loved ones. The seatbelt is the only lifeline when things go wrong.

One good habit I picked up from my 4 years stay in Melbourne - we buckle up even in the back seat. Do it. It's free.

And another note, althought I have some very saucy posts, but not to the point of being explicit, I have safe sex. The only exception is with H. Anyone else, I use a condom. Some guys complain that condoms reduces the sensation. That's true - but the cause of it is, they are using the wrong ones! Condoms have sizes! Go check out the Durex website. They have various designs and the dimensions are clearly stated for each! Find one that fits well. I find Playsafe 003 fits me well, the rest is just way too tight and causes me to loose my erection. More on this later...

Please try to play safe, travel safe. I can only hope the victims can rest in peace.

Online Fishing

H has been very busy for the last few months, owing to her new business. I fully support her althought I get to have alot less 'action' with her. So, to compensate for the reduction of action with H, I am now looking for some friends with benefits a.k.a. fuck buddie / fuck buddy (FB).

So far, the search has been painfully slow. It has been almost a month since I've signed up and paid of for Silver Membership on Adult Friend Finder (AFF) and Gold Membership on Horny Matches.

I have had a fair bit of contact on AFF, with two gals replying to my messages. Sadly, they were interested in long term relationship and not just being FB. AFF is an active site, a fair bit of activities and a lot of new members. Definately the place to be to be on the look out for gals.

HornyMatches, unfortunately, has been disappointing. They have less members and a lot less activities. Some gals did contact me, but I suspect they are 'bots' - meaning automated / computerized replies rather than an actual person. In short, I will not be renewing my subscription here.

I have been thinking, would it help if I start being a male escort, or gigolo? What type of clients would one get? What does it take? A fit body? Good bedroom skills? And for crying out loud, how does one get it hard if the client happens to be a complete turn off (with an acknowledgement to the fact that one man's meat is another man's poison)?

And yeah, I have no contacts at all with MBAs - married but available ladies. Hmmm...what would attract them? Married men? Very young and verile guys?

More questions than answers, I tell you. And all I want is just a good lay, frequently.

Girlfriend turn fuckbuddie

Yup, that's rite. H and I started off well as a couple but my frequent business travels and her business commitments soon meant we met up only for a some hot sex. Oh yes, I enjoyed making love with her. A minor problem was, well, she was rather noisy during the more intimate moments (and the moments can be as long as 45 mins). We made love, not just the wham bam thank you maam.

I would take an hour of so just to get her all hot, wet and ready. Since she could orgasm a couple of times, I will give her one or two first with my fingers - she goes wild when I fingers her G spot. Then, some oral. And yeah, finally, just old fashion banging. Hehehe. We used to fuck till the matress moved from one end of the room till the other. And yeah, she is really naughty - after one round, she will whisper in my ear "Dear, I don't think you have enough", and proceed to make me hard again with her tongue. She loved riding me too. Needless to say, I enjoyed it as well.

I find her a very unique gal, for the following reasons:

• Loved giving me blowjobs. Sometimes, I wake up with her blowing me. Oh boy...what a way to start a day!
• Wants me to cum in her mouth. If there is a drop outside, she *will* lick it up.
• Won't stop sucking even after I've shot my load. LOL. This is a burden I can live with!
• Enjoys watching porn with me, especially when we act it out.
• Always horny - especially just before her period.
• Oh well, she loves riding me even during her period.
• I love it when she asks me...can we try? Hehehe.
• She shaves!

Oh yeah, it took us long enough to find a way to get rid of the smell of my cum in her mouth. It's easy. Have some carbonated drinks, for us, that's usually Coke.

More about H and I later...