Addicted...

Well, I can say that good 'massage' service, with or without extras can be extremely addictive. It's just because it feels great. It arouses the senses of my body. Hehehe. No, I am not badly addicted, but I do wish to have more.

I can truly understand why married men end up with mistresses, especially china dolls. I will be writing a lot more on how to make your husband or bf addicted to you.

The first lesson is priority. Prioritize your work, your tasks, wants and needs. Most of us, we get our priorities wrong. Which is more important: clean floor or happy husband? So, for those who kill themselves with housework, and the unattended husband strays - well, forget about mopping the floor and screw your hubby instead. So, do prioritize.

It's not all about the what the women can do or must do. Men must do their part too. However, I do notice that most gals don't know how to make their hubbies addicted to them. Guys must help out with the housework too. Guys must seduce and send flowers and gifts to wives too. But that's for girls and wives to blog about. I will talk about what guys get addicted to and how to make that happen!

All I want is a girlfriend

Someone asked me the other day, what would I want in a gf? Good question. I am still looking for a gf, but alas, nothing much has turned up. It is not easy to find a gf nowadays, or at least a gf who shares the same values as me.

Must it be a pretty gal, someone asked? Of course not. Someone sincere would be better. Looks would be secondary. More important is... someone who would love me. Someone who would want a long term relationship. Not many are interested in long term relationships - I mean, those who are still single and available. Some has been dump by their bfs and they no longer want a relationship.

Just want someone who is interested in building a home, share things with, have tonnes of sex, someone to talk to, someone who can be my partner, I suppose. But it is not easy. Carry out charity work. Enjoy weekends together. Travel would be good too. :) It's always fun to travel with a partner. Hehehe.

Another thing - why do people give up so easily? I have seen so many gals, giving up on guys because they have had some bad experience. Never give up in life. Move on, try harder. Same goes for work. People just walk away too easily. Sure, do know when to walk away, but for the right reasons.

Office Romance

Time and again, someone would ask me "Your office got no lenglui (pretty gal) meeh?". That's what girls would tell me when I ask them to introduce their friends to me, in my search for a long term girlfriend.

This can only remind me of my Nible2 ex-colleague. She puts it very crudely "Don't eat and shit in the same place." Actually, that's exactly how I feel, but I would not put it so crudely. There have been too many articles out there, stating that office romance is not a good idea. Rumours will spread. Some will get jealous. Cat fights. Kiss and tell. You name it, it will happen. Don't wanna do a Bill Clinton either!

If there is a gal who really like, does that mean I will let her go just like that? Of course not! I would rather resign, go after the gal and get a new job. Hmmm... who's my ideal gf? More on that on another post.

In this sense, I would rather not mix business with pleasure. If I have to mix business with pleasure, it has to be in that order.

Girlfriend turn fuckbuddie

Yup, that's rite. H and I started off well as a couple but my frequent business travels and her business commitments soon meant we met up only for a some hot sex. Oh yes, I enjoyed making love with her. A minor problem was, well, she was rather noisy during the more intimate moments (and the moments can be as long as 45 mins). We made love, not just the wham bam thank you maam.

I would take an hour of so just to get her all hot, wet and ready. Since she could orgasm a couple of times, I will give her one or two first with my fingers - she goes wild when I fingers her G spot. Then, some oral. And yeah, finally, just old fashion banging. Hehehe. We used to fuck till the matress moved from one end of the room till the other. And yeah, she is really naughty - after one round, she will whisper in my ear "Dear, I don't think you have enough", and proceed to make me hard again with her tongue. She loved riding me too. Needless to say, I enjoyed it as well.

I find her a very unique gal, for the following reasons:

• Loved giving me blowjobs. Sometimes, I wake up with her blowing me. Oh boy...what a way to start a day!
• Wants me to cum in her mouth. If there is a drop outside, she *will* lick it up.
• Won't stop sucking even after I've shot my load. LOL. This is a burden I can live with!
• Enjoys watching porn with me, especially when we act it out.
• Always horny - especially just before her period.
• Oh well, she loves riding me even during her period.
• I love it when she asks me...can we try? Hehehe.
• She shaves!

Oh yeah, it took us long enough to find a way to get rid of the smell of my cum in her mouth. It's easy. Have some carbonated drinks, for us, that's usually Coke.

More about H and I later...