Sex and dating sites

Time and again, I hear it from girls (usually): Oh - these dating sites - are a waste of time. I just get tonnes of guys who asks for sex.

Let it be clear. I do not condone such bad behaviour. Neither do I blame it on how one presents herself (I do not believe it...she got rape because she dressed like a slut. I am 100% against these type of argument).

And guys - what on earth makes you think sending an email "Hey - wanna have sex tonight" to a stranger, online will work? If it was that easy....

I know, some guys would say - maybe she is shy and horny. To these guys, here's a quick update on the real world:

1. Vibrators are available in all shapes are sizes.
2. Girls masturbate too. They don't need guys that badly.
3. Gals can learn from porn too.
4. Gals can get easily picked up from clubs / bars / social scene. If they were that horny - they won't be in front of their computer.
5. You have to be nice to a girl first before you get laid good. Even if she was working professionally, if you treat her like dirt, you won't get the best out of her.

Yes, I do have fuckbuddies from online friends. But trust me, it isn't just "Wanna fuck?" kind of email. Talk to her. Chat with her. Flirt with her. She will lay you, once she knows you are more than just a vibrator on legs. What more - don't ask this stupid question on a dating website. Try adultfriendfinder or something like that.

And now, for the girls. Again, as I have stated, I do not blame the girls on this. But please, try to understand that there are two sides to a coin. Take note of how you present yourself. Oh sure - if you dress sexily, it doesn't mean you want to lay any guy. I understand and agree with that. But... what is your impression given these two situation:

• A guy walks into a room with his pistol fully loaded and cocked? (no pun intended)
• Someone walks in with two huge bazookas aimed at your face, point blank?

So girls, isn't first impression important?